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Why Prayer Alone Won’t Fix Your Marriage

Why Prayer Alone Won’t Fix Your Marriage

Why Prayer Alone Won’t Fix Your MarriageKristin Beck Chmiel
Published on: 04/12/2026

Many couples are praying for their marriage but still feel stuck. This article explores why prayer alone doesn’t change patterns and how faith and action work together for real transformation.

“Offer It Up”: When Suffering Is Taken Out of Context

“Offer It Up”: When Suffering Is Taken Out of Context

“Offer It Up”: When Suffering Is Taken Out of ContextKristin Beck Chmiel
Published on: 03/25/2026

A reflection on redemptive suffering, spiritual bypassing, and how “offer it up” can be misunderstood in marriage when taken out of context.

When Forgiveness Is Used to Avoid Accountability

When Forgiveness Is Used to Avoid Accountability

When Forgiveness Is Used to Avoid Accountability Kristin Beck Chmiel
Published on: 03/22/2026

Forgiveness is essential in marriage—but when it’s used to avoid accountability, it can keep couples stuck in the same painful patterns. This article explores the difference between true forgiveness and the kind that quietly prevents real healing.

Spiritual Bypassing in Marriage: 5 Ways Faith Language Can Undermine Healing - Part 1 of a Series on Faith, Psychology, and the Real Work of Healing in Marriage

Spiritual Bypassing in Marriage: 5 Ways Faith Language Can Undermine Healing - Part 1 of a Series on Faith, Psychology, and the Real Work of Healing in Marriage

Spiritual Bypassing in Marriage: 5 Ways Faith Language Can Undermine Healing - Part 1 of a Series on Faith, Psychology, and the Real Work of Healing in MarriageKristin Beck Chmiel
Published on: 03/08/2026

Sometimes the language of faith strengthens a marriage. Sometimes it unintentionally undermines healing. In this article, we explore five ways spiritual bypassing can appear in marriage and what the Catholic tradition teaches instead.

Do You Need Your Spouse to Change First?

Do You Need Your Spouse to Change First?

Do You Need Your Spouse to Change First?Kristin Beck Chmiel
Published on: 03/01/2026

If you’re waiting for your spouse to change before your marriage improves, you may be waiting forever. Here’s where real change begins.

This Lent, Don’t Go It Alone

This Lent, Don’t Go It Alone

This Lent, Don’t Go It AloneKristin Beck Chmiel
Published on: 02/17/2026

Lent is not about self-improvement. It is about conversion. And real conversion is rarely sustained alone.

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