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When Forgiveness Is Used to Avoid Accountability

When Forgiveness Is Used to Avoid Accountability

When Forgiveness Is Used to Avoid Accountability Kristin Beck Chmiel
Published on: 03/22/2026

Forgiveness is essential in marriage—but when it’s used to avoid accountability, it can keep couples stuck in the same painful patterns. This article explores the difference between true forgiveness and the kind that quietly prevents real healing.

Spiritual Bypassing in Marriage: 5 Ways Faith Language Can Undermine Healing - Part 1 of a Series on Faith, Psychology, and the Real Work of Healing in Marriage

Spiritual Bypassing in Marriage: 5 Ways Faith Language Can Undermine Healing - Part 1 of a Series on Faith, Psychology, and the Real Work of Healing in Marriage

Spiritual Bypassing in Marriage: 5 Ways Faith Language Can Undermine Healing - Part 1 of a Series on Faith, Psychology, and the Real Work of Healing in MarriageKristin Beck Chmiel
Published on: 03/08/2026

Sometimes the language of faith strengthens a marriage. Sometimes it unintentionally undermines healing. In this article, we explore five ways spiritual bypassing can appear in marriage and what the Catholic tradition teaches instead.

Do You Need Your Spouse to Change First?

Do You Need Your Spouse to Change First?

Do You Need Your Spouse to Change First?Kristin Beck Chmiel
Published on: 03/01/2026

If you’re waiting for your spouse to change before your marriage improves, you may be waiting forever. Here’s where real change begins.

This Lent, Don’t Go It Alone

This Lent, Don’t Go It Alone

This Lent, Don’t Go It AloneKristin Beck Chmiel
Published on: 02/17/2026

Lent is not about self-improvement. It is about conversion. And real conversion is rarely sustained alone.

Walking Through the Fire

Walking Through the Fire

Walking Through the FireKristin Beck Chmiel
Published on: 02/10/2026

This is a reflection on choosing the pain of change over the risk of staying the same, and what a season of suffering taught me about healing, faith, and freedom.

There Is No Easter Sunday Without Good Friday

There Is No Easter Sunday Without Good Friday

There Is No Easter Sunday Without Good FridayKristin Beck Chmiel
Published on: 01/04/2026

Winter seasons touch us all. In our bodies, our relationships, and our spiritual lives. This reflection explores how winter is not a sign of failure, but often a necessary season of purification, healing, and preparation. There is no Easter Sunday without Good Friday, and no new life without first passing through what feels dormant, hidden, or stripped bare. If you are in a winter season, this piece offers perspective, hope, and a reminder that God is quietly at work beneath the surface.

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